Ban Date (YYYY/MM/DD/):
"High certainty of metacoms with ScarletRegin, you were warned already about this
Where to start.
ScarletRegin and myself are married and live in the same house and play in the house. When we started to play Bee together, I was bwoinked by someone whose name now I don’t remember about our shared IP and I explained to them what the situation was, to which I was reminded about metacoms, which if I remember right my answer was that it shouldn’t be a problem considering we pretty much always play together and don’t do antag unless we have to during conversion rounds.
This was never in either of our public notes and did not feel like a warning at any point in time. I’ve had to go through the same thing on the other server we both play and, over time, both became staff there.
I don’t even remember when we played Bee last, but it must have been a few days ago? We were never approached about this, never presented what exactly did we do that constitutes metagaming (we either play Botany or Medical together and literally have been not converted/killed together once, when I was CMO and Scarlet was Rev. We were separated pretty fast after I was killed and then she watched me get executed by the Revs), in fact, if anything I avoided anything that could seem metagamey (another round, I think actually on the same day, had her die to a subverted medborg in hyrdro maints, which she broadcasted multiple times over General comms, but was completly ignored. I specifically didn’t run to where she was to avoid accusations of metagaming, even though I literally heard her mention it in comms)
Neither of us was ever contacted about this, nor given any concrete evidence of actual metagaming/metacoms. Unless living in the same house is a bannable offense, I really have no idea why this ban was placed without at least trying to reach out to either one of us, nor placed under this particular reason since, again, we never kept the fact that we live together a secret when asked by the staff.
I would like this ban removed or, at the very least, given concrete examples of what exactly we were banned for (as in when did we actually use metacommunication to break server rules), so I can appeal those in detail. We are both on the Bee discord and I’m in particular very easy to find there.
I am assuming I have some sort of hidden note about this since it wasn’t in my public notes system, I am going to assume the note does not detail the fact that we are married/live together and seems to mention a warning that never actually took place, or at least that is not how I remember my convo with the DM who originally brought this up.
If this ban is lifted, can it please be lifted for ScarletRegin as well? She can make her own appeal of course, but it seems like a waste of everyone’s time.